For my friends, from Mariah and Chibird.
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Love,
Mariah
When I was about five something special happened; I started Kindergarten. Dear old Willard Elementary! Strangely, I don't remember learning at all... I do remember playing outside with friends, chasing them around. I had this spot with my very best friends in between these two large pine trees. We would go into that snug space to the old drinking fountain nestled inside. My friends and I would play, hide, poke one another, laugh and then do it all over again.
Every time I hear “Dream” by Priscilla Ahn, I think of these moments. I am five years old again, playing with my best friends. I don't think of the future all that much, and I am content with being me. As I continue listening, I can feel the different stages of the life I have lived so far.
In the song Priscilla Ahn tells a bit about her dreams. At first she says she had a dream she could fly from the highest swing. That is the kind of goal we have when we're young, right? We want to fly out of that grand ole swing and go as far as we can. Then as we develop and change, the swing isn't high enough. We're ready for grander heights, and Priscilla Ahn changes the swing to a tree, and then finally to the highest wing. Just like the idea in this song, my dreams have morphed, changed, been fulfilled, or forgotten—and that, to me, is what this song is all about.
I have come to realize that as our dreams change, we change as well. This can be good or it can be bad. I remember being quite freaked out when I first went to High School. My group of friends drastically changed. Suddenly those best friends I had acquired all throughout my elementary school career were into different things. Suddenly instead of bursting at the seems with conversation, it was a struggle to feel comfortable. It was a huge shock for me.
During the summer prior to my Senior year of High School I came across “Everybody's Changing” by Keane. It perfectly captured that feeling I had then. I felt the same, but all of my friends were changing! In the first verse Keane introduces someone who says they're going to stay the same. The singer responds, “but I don't see how you can”. Truth be told, I can't either anymore. How is it possible to stay the same when our experiences are constantly changing? We laugh, hurt, love, cry, learn, grow, and develop. This has since caused me to wonder... Who had changed? My friends, or I? As I grew older I learned that I didn't want to be the same anymore. I wanted to stay myself. I will laugh, hurt, love, and cry if it means I will be better than before.
I have learned many lessons from music throughout my life so far. I feel that as I continue developing another song that I love will always be applicable. In the end, when all is said and done, I just have to remember not to be afraid. “Be Not Afraid” by Jenny Phillips is a song that gets me right to the core, and helps me to be strong when I feel weak. I feel immense comfort and relief within seconds of its start. The word that comes to mind is sanctuary.
The road of my life has had potholes in it, like most everyone else's. There have been times when I have had to appear stronger than I really feel, or even am. I try my hardest to have a cheery disposition and bright faith that the future will be clearer, when in reality, I am often as scared as the next gal. Sometimes I get to the end of my rope and have no idea what I am doing or where to go next. I start wanting to give up. Inevitably, this song will come on soon after these bitter feelings. It comes as a relief, renewing my energy and brightening my hope. I soon find I have the strength to go on, and not only am I trying to be bright and cheery and believing—I actually am all those things.
To me this song is saying, “Don't give up! There is someone who loves you more than you will ever know, and you will not be alone on this journey. Let your heart believe.” Believe. I tell myself to believe I am worth something--worth a lot actually. I believe I am a part of something bigger than status, High School, and all the world offers.
It is truly amazing the way we can attach ourselves to music. I know that these songs will forever mean something to me. I find it ironic that even now I am attaching new meanings, even new memories, to these songs. It is my hope that I will continue to find beautiful music which will help me to feel empowered, uplifted, and ready for the future. This is the soundtrack of my life so far.
Works Cited:
Jenny Phillips. “Be Not Afraid.” Strong and Courageous: Songs For Youth 2010. Shadow Mountain Records, 2009. MP3.
Keane. “Everybody's Changing.” Hopes and Fears. Island, 2004. CD.
Priscilla Ahn. “Dream.” A Good Day. Blue Note Records, 2008. MP3.
Today was slow, tortuous, and momentous, all at the same time. I woke up to a sore and swollen throat. I wouldn’t have woken up in time for school at all had it not been for that swollen and scratchy throat. I guess I should be grateful. –_- I woke up late and had to rush out the door.
College Day was today, which was awesome! I have gained some great insight, and I feel pumped for College. I know it’ll be hard, but I can do hard things. I liked BYU-I the best out of the three sessions I had. The spirit was great as I listened. I want to go down to see what it’s like. I have a great friend there who is really enjoying it right now. I am so glad she’s there--it’s the right place to be.
I feel like I am too big for this High School now.
I feel like me, but a different version of me. I look around in the halls and it feels like I am back at the middle school. I feel like the kids are small, immature, and confused. I can see now how preoccupied I was with trying to ‘fit in’. I mean, I wasn’t starving myself to be beautiful or buying the latest trends, but I was subconsciously monitoring myself. It feels sad now. I can see how the boys think they’re on top of the world when they are in charge and in their ‘prime’. I can see it all and it makes me uncomfortable. I wish that they could know that High School isn’t their whole life, and that they aren’t what everyone thinks they are or have.
Ok so I was talking about how I was subconsciously trying to fit in. Back on that note. This year I have sort of found out who I am. I am okay with being weird and being me. I am okay knowing I am different. I am more than okay with all of this-- actually, I am FREE! It is such a great feeling to not care what others think. I LOVE IT.
Choose today to be yourself.
Love,
Mariah
Love,
Mariah
“It’s the love that i’ve found—ever since that you’ve been around! …
It’ll help you get rid of your waaaaarts!”
Today has been great. I just feel like writing! I feel so good and free!
Emma, I love music. I agree music really effects our lives. It is amazing how music can change but it never really changes. The thing—or the person—that changes is us. A song can mean something profound to us at the time because it perfectly captures what we feel. I’m excited to see the songs I will identify with my whole life as my experiences grow broader.
So today I woke up at eleven. It was weird but it felt so good. I woke up tangled in my favorite quilt (all old and raggedy but loved to, quite literally, pieces) with my room a little cold. I love that feeling. It is the prefect feeling, that of waking up with the cold air but snug as a bug in your bed, feeling safe from the world around you. I got to read all afternoon. I did have some nagging thoughts about doing my AP Cal homework, but I quickly shoved them away for Monday. Besides, it should be pretty simple. It’s all review so far.
I bought Keane’s oldest album, Hopes and Fears. It is such an easy listen! I LOVE IT! I like “Everybody’s Changing”, “Somewhere Only We Know”, and “Sunshine” so far.
WELP.
Better hit the sack.
Love,
Mariah
http://www.youtube.com/user/BoredShortsTV
For some reason I really think it is kinda catching..... haha. Plus it mentions our home state Utah! Rock on. Um... I am not sure if this really effected my life, but I posted it anyways.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMfSGt6rHos&feature=youtu.be
So yeah. Let pigs live on the farm. This one did effect my day at 4:00 in the morning, in a strange way. P.s. Coldplay sings that song amazingly! So I will post that one just because I love the original!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RB-RcX5DS5A&ob=av2n
I think that is all for today folks!
Em__Ro!
Spelling: It says zero but I dont quite believe it.